Still alive

I knew I was not going to be an everyday blogger :) I told you so...

Well, nothing "new " has happened, it has just been the same routine as every day.

Something new it could be that I have started to walk outside, I am not at all a work out type, I am more the " couch potato " woman...so I am quite proud for myself... I am doing it for my health, my heart and if it helps me to go down a bit of weight, then great!

My children are healthy, thanks God.

Life with Mr. M ( my hubby ) goes up and down...we seem to find each others fails and always argue about it...instead of focusing of the good. Well, I guess we are not the only one couple who goes through those moments, right?

The day that I am coming to Helsinki with my mom is getting near and near and it gets me at the same time excited but worried... I think about my small boys, if they will miss me too much... I am not worried about Mr.M ... maybe one of his dreams will come true...to be a few days without a "damn bitch " who only complains.

I'm also worried about how our home will be when I come back...I mean how dirty, how messy will be. Will I find a huuge pile with unwashed dishes and clothes...sticky floor... arghhh...did I mention that I vacuum our floor everyday? I can not see pieces, hairs, dirt and sand on the floors...specially under our beds.

So pleeease!  I want to have a nice and clean house when I come back....maybe Mr. M will apreciate a bit more everything I do at home? I hope so!

Well, tomorrow I'll go to the "mom & child" group that's organized by the municipality...hopefully It won't be a terrible weather as they have promised a hard storm.

Take care!

Mom: No Dad: Yes

That is one of the things that get nerves and liver explode, when one parent says Yes and the other No or viceversa.

If one of our children have not eaten, I said, well, you'll have to wait until tomorrow to get food again, you will have to learn to learn to feel "hungry" so next time you will eat everything.  Dad comes, and he agrees, you won't get anything else because you have not eaten!

Later on, my children get something to eat in spite of what we agreed.

What are they going to learn next time? That mommy and daddy's word aren't serious.

Mom ends up looking like a mean fool mother, and dad, like a fool that doesn't stick to his promises either.

Parenting would be much easier if...

Why Good Cop/Bad Cop Parenting Harms Kids?

http://moms.popsugar.com/Why-Good-CopBad-Cop-Parenting-Harms-Kids-27330964

Little builders

No need to have lego or cars...just a few broken tiles and they have so much fun!

First autumn frost

Autumn is finally here...althought it felt like winter...super cold and hard wind...our chili plants are almost dead...hopefully the remaining chilies will survive so I can freeze them and use them to make Peruvian food during the winter.

Tuco & Tico have been inside...they still have  the flu, right now they are playing with lego, they play so good together...ahhh...so now can momma finally rest and watch some tv, just lie down and relax...